Welcome to Bed, Bars & Beyond!

Here you will find advice and insights that will improve your ability to establish and maintain fulfilling intimate relationships.

Finding myself back on the dating scene in my mid forties, I realised two things: dating in real life is nothing like the movies, and almost everything men know about sex we learn from watching porn! This led me on a journey of development, through the seedy underworld of pickup artistry and ultimately to the company of likeminded mature men who cracked the code of lasting attraction through authenticity and excellence. Now I want to share what I’ve learned so that other men can enjoy the same rewards.

Who is this for?

• Single men:

  • gain insights into attracting and connecting with women - in real life!

• Women:

  • discover the male perspective on dating and relationships

  • share tips with the men in your life to help them become the best version of themselves

• Men and women already in relationships:

  • learn new ideas to preserve or rekindle the attraction and passion

  • unlock new dimensions of intimacy

• Parents of Boys:

  • discover useful insights to help you guide your boys along the path to becoming the type of men other men want to be, and women want to be with.

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